
Heather Benak, LICSW
“Every person has strengths and unique abilities. My aim is to help clients tap into their inner resources, learn new skills, strengthen their sense of purpose, feel more at ease in the world and build meaningful connections with others”
Heather Benak is licensed to provide telehealth services to clients located in Massachusetts and South Carolina.
Background & Qualifications
Heather Benak has over 15 years of experience as a therapist treating a variety of different conditions including mood and anxiety disorders, personality disorders and behavioral issues. She also specializes in the management of stress, chronic health conditions and adjustment to life transitions.
Her approach to therapy is empathic, non-judgmental, and responsive to the unique needs of each client. Heather utilizes science-validated treatment to help clients address specific issues and alleviate symptoms. She understands the importance of consistency, confidentiality and collaboration in treatment, which will be discussed in more detail upon the first appointment.
Heather started her career at the Institute for Family Health in the Bronx, NY, a busy community health center. She received training in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused CBT, play therapy and family systems therapy. Heather facilitated anger management groups for adults and adolescents and ran a multiple-family therapy group (developed by NYU McSilver Institute), a pilot program aimed at children exhibiting disruptive behaviors and helping their families manage stress.
Heather continued her career as a counselor when she moved to the South Shore, at Aspire Health Alliance (formally South Shore Mental Health) for eight years. She received training from the Linehan Institute in DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and was part of a DBT consultation team in Marshfield. Heather facilitated multiple skills-training groups for adults and adolescents. She taught clients and their caregivers DBT techniques to manage emotional dysregulation and to reduce ineffective, harmful, and life-threatening behavior. Heather is also trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) through the EMDR International Association. She incorporates techniques such as mindfulness, grounding, and cognitive restructuring in work with her clients. She has extensive experience treating adolescents, families, adults and seniors addressing many presenting issues such as grief/loss, chronic health conditions, chronic pain, postpartum depression, academic issues, work-related issues, stress-management for caregivers and parenting concerns.
Heather received her BA in Psychology at Drury University in Springfield, Missouri (where she also received a BA in Spanish and a minor in Philosophy). She received her MSW from Columbia University, with a specialization in Health, Mental Health and Disabilities. She completed clinical internships at an elementary school and a community health clinic in NYC.
Heather believes in the importance of self-care as part of maintaining a healthy lifestyle. She enjoys reading, cooking, swimming, cycling, travel, and spending time outdoors.
Testimonials
I often think about how you helped us through our troubled time and just want to thank you again. Our relationship has grown better and better by the years because of our meetings with you, learning to communicate, and of course staying out of trouble on my end. Last year I took our whole family on safari and I surprised her with renewing our vows in the Kalahari Desert at sunset. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me and you helped open my eyes to what I really had, because at the end of the day, she really wasn’t the cause. I sincerely want you to know that I doubt we would still be together without your help. Just so you know, anyone I talk to who has relationship issues, you’re the number I give them. Not sure if you see any of them, but for their sake, I hope so.
Dr. Rein is a very special couples therapist. He is highly skilled and patient-guided. He helped us to finally communicate effectively, which was very much like learning a new and better language. We highly recommend Dr. Rein. He offers couples insightful observations and suggestions in a very positive and productive environment.
I just wanted to say that I enjoy the blogs that you’ve been sending and let you know that we are so grateful for your help. The “marathon sessions” were the best! That may have been more than a year ago, maybe two, but our relationship is still benefiting from the things you taught us. Now, when one of us gets upset about something, it’s not a world-ending downward-spiraling catastrophe (and that’s a relief in itself!), but instead, we can get ourselves out of it and even laugh together! It’s been great and we say all the time that we’re so thankful for you.
We are so lucky to have found Dr. Rein at the beginning of our marriage to set us on a course for happiness and success. My wife and I got married, had our daughter, and bought a house all in the same year after only dating for a year. When my wife first suggested counseling, I was skeptical and saw it as a sign of weakness and failure on my part, but Dr. Rein’s methods have taught us how to effectively communicate and work through difficult issues that we would not have otherwise been able to handle productively. We have learned to value and appreciate each other’s differences and how to avoid escalating disagreements that would lead into full blown arguments. I truly feel that these sessions have been invaluable for our marriage and well-being.
When my husband and I started seeing Dr. Rein, we thought our relationship might not work because our personalities were too different. We had been seeing another marriage counselor for over 6 months and that just wasn’t working. Looking back, our first marriage counselor felt more like a referee. My husband and I would discuss our fights and she’d let us know which one of us was being reasonable and which one was being unreasonable; then we’d discuss our different upbringings to determine why each of us felt the way we felt. Those methods never moved us forward. Dr. Rein never felt like a referee; he felt like a coach. If my husband felt unappreciated, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated. The goal was to understand how I could express my appreciation because what I was saying or doing wasn’t working. If I felt hurt by something my husband said, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated or determined to be an unreasonable feeling. The goal was to help my husband understand why I felt hurt and to help him communicate his feelings in a way that wasn’t hurtful to me. After working with Dr. Rein our personalities haven’t changed but our communication has and that has made all the difference. My husband and I still have disagreements, but we know how to keep them from escalating to relationship-harming blowouts. We are much more capable of expressing our wants and needs while still expressing how much we truly care for each other. I feel like we have “us” back. We have found our friendship again; we have fun all the time and enjoy each other again. I am so incredibly grateful for Dr. Rein’s help in saving our relationship.