Heather Benak, LICSW
“Every person has strengths and unique abilities. My aim is to help clients tap into their inner resources, learn new skills, strengthen their sense of purpose, feel more at ease in the world, and build meaningful connections with others”
Heather Benak is licensed to provide telehealth services to clients located in Massachusetts and South Carolina.
Background & Qualifications
Heather Benak is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) with over 17 years of clinical experience. She believes that every person brings strengths, abilities, and inner resources to therapy, even when those qualities may be difficult to recognize during challenging times. Her goal is to help clients better understand themselves, develop practical skills for managing difficult emotions, heal from painful experiences, and create meaningful change in their lives.
Heather’s approach to therapy is warm, collaborative, and trauma-informed. She believes therapy is not one-size-fits-all, and that treatment should reflect each person’s goals, strengths, personal history, and readiness for change. She works to create a space where clients feel comfortable being themselves – a space that is welcoming, nonjudgmental, and authentic. At the same time, she believes therapy should be practical and beneficial, helping clients develop concrete skills and strategies they can carry into their everyday lives and relationships.
Heather works with adolescents and adults experiencing a range of concerns, with particular experience treating trauma and PTSD, anxiety, emotional dysregulation, relationship concerns, and significant life transitions. She is trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and has extensive experience with Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), including participating in DBT consultation teams and facilitating skills groups. Depending on a client’s needs and goals, she also incorporates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and somatic approaches into treatment.
Heather earned her Master of Social Work (MSW) from Columbia University in 2009 and began her career in community mental health before moving into outpatient private practice. Her clinical experience has included working with adolescents, adults, families, and individuals navigating trauma, mood and anxiety concerns, chronic health conditions, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, and major life transitions.
She provides in-person therapy in Hingham, as well as telehealth therapy to clients throughout Massachusetts.
Outside of her work, Heather enjoys yoga, cooking, traveling, and spending time outdoors with family and friends. She values curiosity, connection, and finding balance in everyday life.
Testimonials
Dr. Rein is a very special couples therapist. He is highly skilled and patient-guided. He helped us to finally communicate effectively, which was very much like learning a new and better language. We highly recommend Dr. Rein. He offers couples insightful observations and suggestions in a very positive and productive environment.
We are so lucky to have found Dr. Rein at the beginning of our marriage to set us on a course for happiness and success. My wife and I got married, had our daughter, and bought a house all in the same year after only dating for a year. When my wife first suggested counseling, I was skeptical and saw it as a sign of weakness and failure on my part, but Dr. Rein’s methods have taught us how to effectively communicate and work through difficult issues that we would not have otherwise been able to handle productively. We have learned to value and appreciate each other’s differences and how to avoid escalating disagreements that would lead into full blown arguments. I truly feel that these sessions have been invaluable for our marriage and well-being.
When my husband and I started seeing Dr. Rein, we thought our relationship might not work because our personalities were too different. We had been seeing another marriage counselor for over 6 months and that just wasn’t working. Looking back, our first marriage counselor felt more like a referee. My husband and I would discuss our fights and she’d let us know which one of us was being reasonable and which one was being unreasonable; then we’d discuss our different upbringings to determine why each of us felt the way we felt. Those methods never moved us forward. Dr. Rein never felt like a referee; he felt like a coach. If my husband felt unappreciated, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated. The goal was to understand how I could express my appreciation because what I was saying or doing wasn’t working. If I felt hurt by something my husband said, it was taken as a fact; it wasn’t debated or determined to be an unreasonable feeling. The goal was to help my husband understand why I felt hurt and to help him communicate his feelings in a way that wasn’t hurtful to me. After working with Dr. Rein our personalities haven’t changed but our communication has and that has made all the difference. My husband and I still have disagreements, but we know how to keep them from escalating to relationship-harming blowouts. We are much more capable of expressing our wants and needs while still expressing how much we truly care for each other. I feel like we have “us” back. We have found our friendship again; we have fun all the time and enjoy each other again. I am so incredibly grateful for Dr. Rein’s help in saving our relationship.
I just wanted to say that I enjoy the blogs that you’ve been sending and let you know that we are so grateful for your help. The “marathon sessions” were the best! That may have been more than a year ago, maybe two, but our relationship is still benefiting from the things you taught us. Now, when one of us gets upset about something, it’s not a world-ending downward-spiraling catastrophe (and that’s a relief in itself!), but instead, we can get ourselves out of it and even laugh together! It’s been great and we say all the time that we’re so thankful for you.
I often think about how you helped us through our troubled time and just want to thank you again. Our relationship has grown better and better by the years because of our meetings with you, learning to communicate, and of course staying out of trouble on my end. Last year I took our whole family on safari and I surprised her with renewing our vows in the Kalahari Desert at sunset. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me and you helped open my eyes to what I really had, because at the end of the day, she really wasn’t the cause. I sincerely want you to know that I doubt we would still be together without your help. Just so you know, anyone I talk to who has relationship issues, you’re the number I give them. Not sure if you see any of them, but for their sake, I hope so.



